July 6, 2007

What is your Complaint?

What is your Complaint?

What’s your problem? What’s your issue? What can’t you stand? What won’t you put up with?

What do you have an attitude about? What bothers you about the church? What keeps you awake at night?

What drives you crazy and gets you up on your ‘soap box’ thumping the table in protest?

Here you will find your life’s cause and calling. Your irritation is your ministry. What you can’t stand is what you were put here to stand up for.

Celebrity TV chef called Jamie Oliver recently took on the Government about the poor nutritional quality of school meals. His complaint was that our children are being fed junk food at the most formative time of their physical and intellectual development. His outrage exposed the disgrace on national TV and the public protest he provoked resulted in a change in the level of government funding for school meals in a matter of weeks.

Many before him had expressed a concern about school meals, but a concern is not a complaint. A complaint fuels a vision to bring change and the consistent voice it becomes makes real change possible.
When people have no complaint they become compliant; accept the status quo, and sign up to long established traditions. They do what they do because everyone else does; together they comply because compliance is comfortable and comfort has never been the mother of complaint passion holds that birth right!
People have complaints about training, music, kids church, youth, security, visitor experience, tidiness, catering and hospitality, media, marriage, money management, transport, the poor, the homeless, prostitution, drug addiction, solvent abuse, housing, care of the elderly, those in prison – and so on.

The people leading these ministries are doing so because they have a ‘bee in their bonnet’ about it. Their vision of what they can do is coming from their complaint about what was once done poorly or, worse than that, never done at all.

If something bothers you, if you feel something should be done, someone should say something, someone should stand up and stand out, then don’t tell your leaders. You’re noticing it for a reason, you feel strongly about it for a reason.
And the reason is, it’s your complaint, which is the beginning of your vision.
In the same place that you find your life’s complaint you will find your life’s call.

So lets not whinge and complain about the things that we tolerate but be someone with a genuine complaint, willing to become a force for change

1 comment:

Cat said...

Very good Jeremy - you'll have to bear with me - I've gone to the beginning of your blogging lol and am working my way through so will comment where i feel called to along the way! I think the difference between complaint and concern may well mirror the difference we find in leaders between the called and the committed. It may well be that those who are committed see the concern and are willing to do something about it but the ones who are truly called are those who have a complaint and know that this is the area that they HAVE to address for their own peace of mind?

Putting this into specifics though is something I am now challenged to do - my question is this, can we create our own complaint by seeing a concern and getting worked up about it deliberately and thus create a false sense of calling in our own lives? i.e. a girl looking for a cause might see her friend struggling with depression and decide that this is a good cause and so deliberately feed this concern to the point where she is passionate about it and develops a complaint. OR do we have to START with the complaint? What do you think?