February 8, 2008

The "Tyrany of Busyness"

I was reading my good mate Clive Smits Blog on "busyness".

I really appreciated what he had to say.
I believe part of what makes a great leader is that you are able to survey the horision ,and make nessecary changes before you are forced to.
So thanks Clive for the heads up and for watching my back

I also wanted to add a few things to..


If you get busy ,skip your devotions.
Signed Satan

Some peoples definition of life balance is rushing from place to place in moderation

I try to live by the motto. "The key to living a fulfilled life is to foucus on the things that are really important and to disregard everything else".

The best way to spend your life is to invest it in the things that are going to outlast you .
When everything is a manageable pace its easy to see these things ,but the tyrony of '"busyness" is that it so often clouds over the obvious.

We have to work hard to stop that happening. I love this story

The Big Rocks

One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high powered over achievers he said, "Okay, time for a quiz."
Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouthed Mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, "Is this jar full?"
Everyone in the class said, "Yes."

Then he said, "Really?" He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the space between the big rocks. Then he asked the group once more, "Is the jar full?"
By this time the class was on to him. "Probably not," one of them answered.
"Good!" he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full?"
"No!" the class shouted. Once again he said, "Good."

Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the class and asked, "What is the point of this illustration?"
One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!"
"No," the speaker replied, "that's not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is: If you don't put the big rocks in first, you'll never get them in at all."

What are the 'big rocks' in your life?
Your relatinship with God? Your husband or wife? Your children? Your loved ones? Your health? Your education? Your dreams? A worthy cause? Teaching or mentoring others? Doing things that you love? Time for yourself?

Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you'll never get them in at all. If you sweat the little stuff (the gravel, the sand) then you'll fill your life with little things you worry about that don't really matter, and you'll never have the real quality time you need to spend on the big, important stuff (the big rocks).

So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question: What are the 'big rocks' in my life? Then, put those in your jar first.

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